Sunday, August 31, 2014

August 31, 2014 - Sitting Up!

At 4 months and 9 days old, Aya can now sit up by herself.  No, she can't get into that position by herself of course.  And she doesn't last more than about 3 or 4 minutes before toppling over.  But she CAN do it and seems to almost prefer it to laying down.  One month earlier than Noah did it, two months earlier than Gracie did it.  She's just moving right along, knocking these milestones out one by one.  I am afraid it's all going a little too fast for my liking...with a tooth or two up next on her "to do" list (based on the amount of drooling and crying we've experienced this weekend alone!).
LMW







Thursday, August 28, 2014

August 2, 2014 - Growing Pains

It's been a tough week (few weeks?) for us.  Grace's start in Kindergarten has been a roller coaster:  she is really happy at school and loves it there, but is so exhausted that her behavior at home leaves a lot to be desired.  She also had one physical fight with another child already :(  We know other kids having different symptoms of adjusting to the structured school environment with lots of new activities (Kiswahili lessons, music, art, swimming, PE and library!). I know we're in good company, but that doesn't make it much easier in the middle of her extreme temper tantrums.  

In order to be to school on time without sitting in an hour of traffic she has to leave the house at 6:20.  Which means waking up at 5:30.  Which means going to bed by 6:30.  When school is over at 1:45 she either comes home (2 or 3 times a week) or goes to Nordic School for their after school program where she gets to have Danish lessons and be in a safe, comfortable place with her Nordic community for eating, playing, swimming.  It is a wonderful opportunity for her to keep that Nordic connection and start learning to read and write in Danish, but also makes her even more tired.  So we're still working on finding the right balance.  At least she loves her school, loves that she has a lot of friends there and is making new friends even.  Seems to like her teacher, who I will get to know a little bit better this afternoon at the school's first open house.

Then she got head lice (and so did Kristoffer...so far just him), which is MUCH WORSE THAN ANYONE EVER TELLS YOU.  Or maybe it's just because Grace is impossible when it comes to anything related to her hair.  Our past weekend was the worst one on record with new levels of screaming, separations, and very expensive medicines/hair products.  

Then she got sick with a chest infection.  As did Aya (who has both viral and bacterial infections).  Both of them are on antibiotics now.  I hate that Aya needed them already...although I guess Noah's first antibiotics in Kenya started at 16 days old, so at least she is not that young.

Speaking of Noah...he is adjusting to life without Grace at Nordic School pretty well, for the most part.  But he misses her a lot so when they are together he is not always nice to her (teasing her a lot...for which she has no tolerance).  We can see that their play is changing as she now feels a distinct difference in their age since she is in formal school.  We will have to continue to help him - both of them! all of us! - navigate this change.  One coping mechanism he is using is imaginary friends.  He seems to be talking a lot about his "big brother Shredder" (the bad guy from TMNT) and "all of his little brother robots". Luckily he really loves to play with Oliver and when he gets home before Grace he will often decide whether he wants to play with me or her, and then he is getting a lot of focused attention.  And you know...he's only 3, so he still has his fair share of "where did that come from?" meltdowns...although at school they don't believe me about that because they think he is just the sweetest boy ever. He is very sweet!  But all kids are complex!

Aya is not sleeping through the night even a little bit...being sick has sort of ruined whatever progress we were making in that department.  She is surprisingly mobile now that she can roll both ways, and she is very ticklish which I adore about her.  I really hope she feels better soon - the antibiotics are helping her infections, but are not helping her stomach.

Kristoffer and I are really, really, really tired.  Loving our little kiddos, but having three of them in three totally different stages is a little bit more challenging than we expected.  Hoping we can start fresh next week with no illness, more sleep, and perhaps more patience with each other :)

LMW

Thursday, August 21, 2014

August 21, 2014 - Four (Months) and Fabulous

Just like everybody says...it is going TOO FAST!  Aya is four months old today.  Wasn't I just pregnant?! 

For weeks she was brilliant at putting herself to sleep - now Aya has regressed and is giving us a really hard time going down, even when  especially when she is exhausted.  Sometimes she'll sleep for a longer stretch at night like 3 or 4 hours, but she almost always sleeps for either 45 minutes or 2 hours.  At night time, this is truly EXHAUSTING!  It must be her body's normal sleep rhythm though and we will now start working harder to teach her to put herself back to sleep at night without feeding. Because really.  It's just not at all sustainable when her big sister has to be awake by 5:45 am to get to kindergarten on time.  

Aya still nurses like a champ and is equally happy to take a bottle of pumped milk.  For some reason she is fighting (or giving up?) her binky (NOOOO!) but does seem to be taking to the forced attachment of her "lovey bunny" (our chosen comfort item for her - thanks to my Aunt Judy for that one!).  She is smiling and laughing a lot - although almost never on camera, argh - and is especially happy/chatting/giggly around Grace...who will do anything to get a smile or laugh out of little Miss Little Sister.  At 14.5 weeks old she weighed a little over 13 lbs (6 kg) and goes back to the doctor for her next shots and another check up in about 2 or 3 weeks. 

Aya still loves her bath.  She does not love the bouncy seat very much because she just tries to sit up in it and gets frustrated.  She rolls back and forth both ways so we now find her all over the place and not at all in the same position in which we left her.  She sits in the bumbo or her high chair (not feeding yet, mostly for entertainment) more and more.  We have a hard time getting her out of the bumbo because of her chunky little thighs :)  She also really likes her musical mobile in her crib - it calms her down and distracts her if she is upset, but she will never fall asleep to it. She is starting to get into little toys/rattles and seems especially to like music.  She sometimes likes being read to but often fusses...I think I am reading to her at the wrong times and should start doing it when she wakes up instead of before she sleeps.

Aya is a typical 4-month-old in that just when you think you have her figured out, she changes!  Her pictures from today are not stellar because she spent most of the day:  1) in the car, 2) in a Board meeting at Noah's school, 3) in a parent meeting at Grace's school, or 3) in the car.  That was because Oliver has been sick and unable to work for the last 3 days so I've been dragging Aya along with me to all of my commitments.  She's a busy little lady.  And as much as the time is just flying by, we're enjoying many happy moments with our little peanut and are eager to see what the next month has in store for us (read:  please stop waking up at night!).

LMW








Friday, August 15, 2014

August 15, 2014 - When You Move Overseas...

A friend in Dar shared someone else's blog about things nobody told you before moved overseas.  I would say that I 100% currently identify or have at some point in the last 6.5 years identified with every single one of these (minus all the parts about missionary work).  I desperately wish I had this list BEFORE I moved to Kenya...I would have been so much better prepared.

Below, I directly pasted the list of "20 Things No One Told You About Moving Overseas" 
from the full blog at this address:
http://bewarethecomfortzone.com/2013/11/12/20-things-no-one-told-you-about-moving-overseas/

If you even scan this for 2 minutes you will double your understanding of this life!
LMW
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1. You will love fast food, even if you didn’t before. We rarely ate at McDonald’s in the States, but here, it just tastes like home. I have several friends who never stepped foot in a Starbucks until they moved overseas. Food is familiarity, something we all need once in a while. As bomb diggety as the local food is, we all need a fatty burger and a latte sometimes.
2. No matter how “easy” it is on paper to start a business, get a visa, make a major purchase, or start a “government approved” ministry, government bureaucracy and red tape runs deep. Multiple sources gave us similar timelines for achieving these things, but when we finally got them wrapped up, months after our projections, the response from others was, “wow, that was really fast!”. So, taking twice as long as expected is “really fast”.
3. You will not become a different person. You will not be super person. You will grow and change, but dont expect to climb off the plane and be instantly a new improved you. This is a biggie. I think on short term trips, people are more willing to step out of those comfort zones and stretch themselves, since there is a “now or never” mentality. If you weren’t serving or involved at home, chances are, you won’t serve overseas. If you weren’t an evangelist at home, you will not magically transform once you clear customs. And it’s OK. Missions and ministry takes all forms, the body needs all parts to function. Find your niche, and do YOUR best. However, this is not an excuse for inactivity. Since time is more infinite, and tomorrow is always a possibility, it’s easy to settle for a lower standard. Don’t. Push yourself everyday, stretch yourself everyday.
4. Your local circle of friends will be more like a revolving door. People come, people go, some stay long term, but friendships need to be held with an open hand. God brings people into our lives for seasons, and it’s important to invest in those friendships while you’re in the same place. If you make the effort, they will bridge the miles later.
5. Speaking of friendships, you will get jealous of friends at home! Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and good old email are phenomenal tools to keep in touch, but they are also tools that can cause jealousy, loneliness, and doubt in what you’re doing. While your friends long to be in your pictures of the beach, or surrounded by adorable foreign kiddos, you look at their pictures of birthday parties, holidays, and wide open spaces and feel a pang of “I wish I was there!”. Remember, social media shows the highlight reel of our lives, not the daily grind.
6. It’s very hard to vent or debrief with friends back home. Even your closest friends, family, and allies. People will not understand your complaints, they often see it as a long term missions trip. They see you living in a fairy tale. They don’t see everything on this list! It’s important to find someone, a friend, fellow foreigner, or mentor who will listen to your complaints and frustrations without judging, laughing, or sarcastically saying, “wow, must be hard to live your life!”. Yep, sometimes, believe it or not, it’s hard.
7. Things take longer, and are done at a lower quality standard. The rest of the world moves at a slower pace than us Westerners. Which is usually a good thing. It results in lower stress and better relationships. It also results in repairs and other services taking twice as long. We sit back and wonder, “Why doesn’t this guy just invest in a power tool for cripes sake?!? It’s taking him two hours to chisel that hole that I could do with an air tool in seconds! Arrrgh!”. Those are the times to come down off the ethnocentric pedestal and remind yourself that 1) Power tools are expensive and 2) They have been doing it this way for ages, and while we don’t get it, they are fine with it, and the end result is the same. Usually. Work quality is far below what we’re used to, and while it’s frustrating to take the car in to have the same repair done four times, it happens. Guess what? You’re living in a developing nation. This is not the United States, or even “US Light”. You need to adapt, not them.
8. Things (aka luxuries!) are more expensive. People will tell you how you will live like royalty, how you can live on $20 a month, and life will be just grand. False. While it’s possible to live “locally” and spend a lot less, most foreigners spend about the same here as they did at home. That said, housing is less, local (market) foods are less, and entertainment is less. But, if you’re craving that McDonald’s, or basically any food that comes from somewhere else, you’ll pay about the same, or more. “Extreme” luxuries, such as tools, kitchen appliances, cars, clothing, etc., will usually run about double. And speaking of clothing…
9. It will be hard to find clothes that fit. The majority of the world is much smaller than us tall, husky Westerners, and anything over a size 6 is a bit of a novelty. If you can find “plus size” clothing, for women at least, the styles are usually styled after Miami Beach retirees, if you get my drift. Eventually, all of your clothes will have holes, stains, and will be thread bare due to the harsh environment, lack of stain removal products, and hours of drying in the sun. When friends or missionaries return for a visit, and they look like they’ve been living on the street, it’s not a fashion statement. It’s all they have. “Holey underwear” spans the entire missions community, not just the Mormons if you get my drift. ;)
10. You will get tired of being stared at. Even after being here a few years, we get daily stares when we leave the house. Everyone wants to be your “friend”. Seriously, and at the risk of sounding narcissistic, I can understand on a minor level what celebrities deal with. There are days I just don’t want to leave the house, or run to the store to pick up two items, for fear of the constant attention. It’s amazing how people study your every move, and watch what you put in your cart. Yes, we buy toilet paper and bread too! Isn’t that just crazy?!? and Andrew, our 14 year old, garners a lot of attention, especially from giggly girls, and as of now, is completely oblivious to it. Other missionaries have said that their kids never “got it” until returning to the States, then they wondered why they didn’t get constant, undivided attention.
11. You will never fully grasp the culture, no matter how long you are in one place. Just like you physically stick out, your attitudes, beliefs, and roots are deep. You can adapt, and accept, but there are things you will just never fully understand. And it’s OK, as long as you accept that things are done differently than you might have chosen.
12. Learning the language takes time. I love movies where the foreign character arrives in America, doesn’t speak a word of English, and within two weeks is fully fluent, complete with pop culture references and obscure idioms. There are exceptions, some people are hard wired to pick up languages, but for us normal folk, it takes time. Years. You will make mistakes, and the locals will laugh, but I promise, they will appreciate the effort. Don’t get discouraged, practice as much as you can, ask questions about vocabulary and grammar, and it will come.
13. You will be confronted with realities firsthand that are hard to imagine. Problems that were faraway and didn’t bare themselves in the “clean” western world will smack you in the face. In the last two years, we have narrowly missed three major typhoons, a phenomenon that before only appeared to us on international news. Privacy is not part of the culture in the majority of the world. This leads to personal tragedies being viewed by all, out in the open, exposed and vulnerable. Grisly car and motorcycle accidents are not covered up or cordoned off. Prostitutes walk the streets openly at night, and dirty, begging children aggressively approach cars at busy intersections. Disease and disfigurement are not covered up. I hate to say “you’ll get used to it”, because that just seems to minimize it, but you will adjust to the shock over time. It doesn’t make it less tragic, but it’s necessary to find a way to cope.
14. People back home may expect it, but you will not save the world. But, for a few, you can change their world. This falls under the “super human” category. Supporters will send $50, and say, “Here, now you can buy seeds, and start a completely sustainable farm for a village, for life! In one weekend!” Oh, how I wish it was so easy! Projects take time, relationship building, training, and yes, financing. Even the smallest project costs more than expected, and takes time. If you have enough confidence in the person to help fund them, you must have confidence in their ability to be good stewards of what they’re given, and make good, prayerful decisions.
15. You will eventually surrender in the war against the insects. All the bug spray, organic mixes, bug traps, and secret formulas that Grandma swore by will not completely eliminate bugs in the majority of the world. Do what you can, seal you food as tight as you can, check your holey clothes before putting them on, and move on. Extra protein, right?
16. When you return home for visits, high on all your experiences and full of stories, just know that not everyone will be as enthusiastic as you are. And that’s OK. We all have interests, and travel is not for everyone. Just spend time with those you love, be yourself, and when stories come up, great! Remember that people at home will have stories too, life didn’t stop for them once you climbed on the plane. Don’t come home expecting all eyes and attention will be on you, remember that only happens when you’re overseas ;)
17. You will lose your temper, and have “ugly” un-Christian moments. We all do. As a missionary, or even an ex-pat, yes, we are supposed to constantly walk around with a smile and a Bible in hand, without a care in the world. Not true. We all have bad days. Just like everyone else in the world. We’re supposed to be “representatives” for our country, and the Kingdom of God, but we snap, we say things, and openly express our frustration. This applies to sales clerks, government officials, the street kids that relentlessly panhandle after firmly being told no, and our own families. Fortunately, most people are forgiving, as is our God. Apologize quickly, forgive quickly, and move forward with a smile. Then go home, scream into your pillow, and call your venting buddy.
But it’s not all bad news!
18. You will find strengths you never knew you had, or develop strengths you didn’t have before! All these “refining” experiences will grow you, if you let them. Your patience, endurance, creativity, and faith will grow in ways you never thought possible. If you want to be successful, all these attributes are necessary for survival.
19. You will find sentimental connections with your adopted culture, and will really miss things if/when you return to your homeland. While you’ll never fully adopt the culture of your host country, you will build deep connections with parts of it, and the people that are a part of it.
20. You will meet people on every economic level and background, and soon learn how alike we all are. Instead of going to “help”, you learn you have come to “partner”. You will learn that other lifestyles are just as fulfilling and legitimate as the “American Dream” we are all brainwashed into thinking is the pinnacle of success.

Thursday, August 14, 2014

August 14, 2014 - Bike Riding!

Grace has learned to ride her bike without training wheels.  I think she did it by herself for the first time on 1st of August, but she didn't KNOW that she was doing it by herself until August 3rd.  She is so very proud, and as parents we realize how amazing it is when your kids master a new skill that they have been practicing.  Before she couldn't ride by herself, and now she can!  We have to work on getting on/off alone and braking, but still...she can ride!  Here she goes...


Great job, Gracie!
LMW


Wednesday, August 13, 2014

August 13, 2014 - On my birthday...

The news in the world is really depressing these days.  Police killing people in America.  Russia vs. Ukraine.  Israel vs. Palestine.  Airplane crashes.  Ebola.  Suicide. If you really stop to consider the true, enormous weight of these situations and events, you would never get out of bed.  Or at least I wouldn't.    But today is my birthday - and so for one day I would like to be completely ignorant and neglectful of the reality of the larger world, and just focus on the joys of my own immediate little world.  I know that is not particularly socially responsible on a grand scale, but for one day I'm letting myself off the hook.

Turning 34 on a Wednesday doesn't seem like anything so special, but when surrounded by these four...well, it just feels down right lovely.  Thank you to my dear ones for helping me enjoy this life, ups and downs and all, and helping me age so well (I hope).  





From me with lots of love...
LMW

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

August 12, 2014 - Empathy

This past Wednesday, Grace got injured on our trampoline.  She was jumping and came down on her ankle, twisting it in a weird way and maybe tearing some ligaments.  Basically, she sprained it.  While so thankful that it wasn't broken, we felt really bad for her because it was painful (swollen and bruised - luckily not too badly) and because the next day was Kindergarten orientation. She was a wee bit dramatic about it (my sister asked me when I told her this, "Where on earth do you think she got that from?") but by the next morning she had adapted to having her ankle wrapped, hopping or crawling around as needed.  For orientation, the plan was that Kristoffer would carry her all around for the tour of the very large campus (which he did).

I tell this story because when we were driving to the school on Thursday morning for orientation, something intereting happened.  We were sitting in some traffic and a man came along the road asking for money at all of the driver windows - he had only one leg and only one arm.  Normally we don't give money - that's another discussion right there if you want to have it - and I didn't have any on me anyway so sort of waved to him with a shrug saying "Pole, not today."  Grace watched the interaction and then said: "Mama do you know what? I feel really bad for that man because he doesn't have a leg and I know how it feels if you can only walk on one leg."  

And just like, she understands the concept of empathy. It was a small moment, but a "big" one as well.  And we were very happy that she could walk this weekend and didn't have to wear her ankle wrapped to school for the first time yesterday.  She still has a small limp, but otherwise bounced back very quickly.  I love that she is at an age to start understanding bigger concepts about human emotion and relationships.  It's fascinating and inspiring, equally.

LMW

Monday, August 11, 2014

August 11, 2014 - First Day of School (AKA "Joy")

Today is a special back to school day in our house.  Grace was dropped off at Kindergarten this morning (Nobody cried!) and Noah moved up to the "Kubwa" class at Nordic School.  Both were very, very happy.

Grace:  She had to be woken up at 6 am for a 6:30 sharp departure to not get stuck in Dar's notoriously miserable traffic.  Parents can leave kids at 6:55 for playing, school starts at 7:10 sharp.  I had already been awake since 5 with Aya, but Kristoffer and I were both pretty giddy this morning.  It is a big deal when your child starts formal school!  When I went in to wake up Grace she had already been lying in bed awake waiting for me for a little while.  She was so eager and excited.  Last night we packed her lunch box together and this morning she "organized" her backpack the way she wanted to.  She was wearing her P.E. (physical education) uniform because she has P.E. today (and art!) and was especially happy about her new socks.  She ate a great breakfast and was so happy that both of us were taking her to school today.  Her only stress of the morning came when we had to sit in a few minutes of traffic - "I don't want to be LATE!"  After orientation last week she knew just where to hang her bag and which cubby belonged to her.  She was happy to see a friend who arrived before us, and was also happy to say goodbye to us.  The only anxiety Kristoffer and I had was noticing how many mosquitos were in the classroom...she had been well-sprayed this morning but still!  I can't wait to pick her up later today and hear all about her day.  Our big girl!

With a new haircut, she even styled it herself this morning with her new headband that Mattias brought her from Sweden.
 She might not look like me, but her organized backpack and desire to be on time tell us she's really mine!  The first day of school always makes me miss teaching!
Full P.E. uniform ;)
 With her friend Sia, just before we left her.
A shot with Mattias...they look even more alike now that they have to wear identical clothes!

Noah:  He told me two days ago, "I feel sad for Gracie that she doesn't get to be with me at Nordic School anymore."  If that's not projection, I don't know what is!  But despite his separation anxiety (and accompanying undesireable behavior on occasion this past week), he was a really happy guy when I took him to school this morning.  He got to physically bring his box from the old classroom to the new classroom, and he organized his stuff inside it the way he wanted it.  He was especially happy to be reunited with the moon cars at school and seemed to hit it off really well with a Swedish teacher named Rasmus, the only male teacher at the school (so happy for Noah!).  He told me when I could leave and reminded me to come back and get him later.  What more could I hope for?!  

 Superman shoes?  Check.  Superman shirt?  Check.  Batman backpack (not pictured)?  Check.  Spiderman water bottle (not pictured)?  Check.  It's going to be a SUPER school year!


 Aya: This is her "where did all my people go?" face.

What a great day in the Welsien family!  And with Aya taking a nap as I type this (I should be napping, I know I know), the house has not been this quiet since the beginning of March before I went to America :)

LMW
LMW

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

July 30, 2014 - Kid Stories

The kids today...

Grace
She just learned to play UNO and this morning, before her friend came over to play, I caught her "organizing" the cards.  Turns out she fixed the deck so that if it was only the two of them playing and SHE dealt the cards, she would get all of the +2 and +4 and Skip and Reverse cards.  "The bad ones" she calls them.  Move over, Ben Affleck!  There's a new cheat in town!


Noah
On our Lego table this morning I found this display:
Disturbing!  What does have he have planned for this headless lineup!?

Aya
We finally ran out of disposable diapers so today is our first day on reusable cloth diapers.  Oh Pampers, how I took you for granted.  I have already put them on her incorrectly (but she is asleep so I can't wake her up to fix it...God only knows what will happen this round!) and the assembly required to adjust the elastics alone on all of the ones we bought has me hating this decision. I know WHY we decided to do it: good quality diapers are hard to come by here and are very expensive. You can't buy in bulk and there is an unreliable supply.  And unlike US Embassy staff we can't order from Amazon! So purchasing someone else's entire cloth diaper set seemed like (and actually is) a great idea.  But after 5 years of killing our planet with disposable diapers, I think this will be a hard transition to make. 

Just a normal day around here!
LMW

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

July 29, 2014 - Better Late Than Never

Noah was 3 1/2 on July 22nd, and I realized it on July 23rd.  Sorry, Buddy.  This is normally a day I would have acknowledged or celebrated in some way. You know,  before I was a bit scattered with three kids on summer staycation.  These days I am forgetting or not doing a lot of things I would normally be remembering or doing.  I am sure it is a phase and it will pass...Aya is only three months old and, fingers crossed, I am sure that at some point in the next 4 years I will start to sleep through the night again.  But back to Noah...

He is a really smart kid who is quite charming, incredibly sweet, and also pretty complex.  He remains loyal to Grace who he adores (and sometimes bites out of frustration!  Sisters!), maybe second only to Far...who he calls "my own friend" (min egen ven) in Danish (which is not really a thing you can say in Danish, making it THAT much cuter), implying that Far is his best friend.  He has a lot of energy and if feeling ignored or neglected (which, let's face it, he has certainly felt at times since he became a big brother) will use that energy in a more destructive/offensive manner than normal.  He does sometimes have really extreme temper tantrums if he doesn't get what he wants or if he feels he has been wronged, but luckily those are not daily.  

In true Danish fashion, Noah has inherited his Far's love of Legos.  He can play for hours with Grace or by himself in his own Lego world - blending Ninja Turtles with animals with pirates with rescue officers and so on.  His imagination is endless.  He is a finnicky eater (no surprise, given his predecessor), with a very light frame to show for it.  He only naps 1 or 2 times a week now, but we suffer the consequences because he will take AGES to go to sleep at night when he naps during the day.  It is a tricky game because he never sleeps through the night and we often (always?) wake up (or I do with Aya) to find him sleeping with us, so sometimes he needs that nap to get through the day.  A vicious cycle.  I hope that getting back into the routine of school will help.

In two more weeks Noah will start back at the Nordic School but this year is in the "kubwa" (big) class.    His teachers this year will be two Swedes and a Norwegian, and he will no longer be with the one teacher he has had consistently for the last two years (and no Danish teacher!).  And Gracie will not be there anymore, so that could be the source of some anxiety.  Counting my absence before Aya was born, Aya's arrival, Rose's departure and having a new nanny (who he really likes!) at home, and the change at school...this is really a period of transition for Noah and I feel there is a LOT going on in that head of his. His language has developed wonderfully in both English and Danish...minus the "s" sound which he still can't make consistently.  Working on it!

Noah is curious, but cautious.  He is interested in so many mature things but is actually scared of them too - pirates and dragons and monsters and bad guys in general, to name a few.  He is also fascinated by death - speaking often of Oldemor and Kyle and Jesus, who he is also very interested in.  He is looking at the crucifix a lot and often asks about Jesus' life and death, requesting Bible stories at bedtime at least once a week. Do we have a future priest on our hands?  He is a thoughtful boy and likes to know what is going on around him.  I can't count the number of times he asks,  "What are you talking about?" when listening to adult conversation or, "What did you say?" if he didn't quite understand something.  He is always fine when we go out but also always checks, "But you will come back?"

As this boys grows, we continue to adore and embrace him.  Even though he is the middle child (a family position many people worry about!), he is our only boy and holds an important role in our family.  A special guy for sure, who makes us laugh and smile and love. It is hard to believe that he is closer to 4 now than he is to 3, and we are looking forward to seeing how he changes in the next half year.  We really love you, Buddy!

A fire truck fort that Far built for Fireman Noah.

 (I think that Aya looks a lot like Noah in this picture - tak Hans!)
Happy Lego Guy!
 Painting, in theory, a bird house at the local garden shop...

LMW

Monday, July 28, 2014

July 28, 2014 - The Green Monster

This weekend we bought (a used) kayak and yesterday Kristoffer and Hans took the kids out for their inaugural trip.  They had a great first experience and we hope will foster a greater love of the water/ocean in them. Kristoffer used to do a lot of kayaking at university so he is thrilled to be back in a boat.



While they were out in the kayak, Aya tried out the ocean for the first time, bathing in some warm tide pools.  Given how much she loves her bath, I suspected she would enjoy it.  She wasn't overly smiley - maybe trying to figure out why she had clothes on? - but she was very calm and relaxed...and afterwards she enjoyed sucking the salt off my shoulder.

I even got a chance to go out in the kayak for a few minutes...now I just need to strengthen my left shoulder and I'll enjoy it even more.

 I have named our kayak, "The Green Monster," for obvious reasons.
Today they wanted more and could go out from the beach because the tide was up. Farmor also got to have a turn.  

And a new family favorite past time is born!
LMW

Thursday, July 24, 2014

July 24, 2014 - Summer Holiday

Farmor and Hans have been in our neck of the woods for two weeks.  Nothing makes for happier kids during summer vacation than totally dedicated grandparents!  Here are a few scenes from their visit.

Picnic Lunch at the Beach



Mini-vacation at a hotel called Protea Amani Beach on the South Beach of Dar es Salaam.  Two nights away and it was just lovely (minus a wee bit of food poisoning for Farmor - welcome to East Africa!).





(huge waves were crazy but so much fun!)


(crabs all lined up for a race!)



Making New Friends
Learning New Games
(Grace is the new Welsien Family UNO champ!)
Playing Playing Playing
(one of East Africa's finest "death trap" playgrounds) 
Practing our Bike Riding
(she doesn't yet know that he often lets go!)
Baking with Farmor
Beautiful Sunset over the Indian Ocean...
sometimes I forget how lucky we are to have this view everyday if we want it!
Shopping for Grace's new school uniform!
Admiring the Tanzanian Flag :)

We have another week-and-a-half to go with Farmor and Hans, so that's great. And a very nice part of summer break has been that Kristoffer has taken quite a few days off of work here and there, making for long family weekends (which means I get to sleep late a few mornings a week - yippee!). Only 19 days until back to school (not that I'm counting)...and as much fun as summer break is, with not so many "new" things to do in Dar this time of year (despite the WONDERFUL weather right now) I think we will all appreciate the routine of the school year (tell me I am not the only parent who thinks that?).

LMW